I was watching this drama in the middle of my studies to release stress. Haha! A 20 minutes series that is full of laughter. But, today, I had learnt a very important lesson from it too.
There is a character Richard whom dated an older woman, Har Jie. Here, in the story, they temporarily stayed together. But, Har Jie, did not want his son (whom is currently in America with his father, her ex-husbamd) to know about Richard's existence, went to the dumping area just to video chat with him. Richard then found out about it. He decides to move out. But the main this is what he said, 'Sometimes, we cared too much about winning or losing the game of love, thinking too much about whom is making the decision. But, I think I had won this time, by having a woman whom never thought about it when she is with me".
I think what he says is so true. We always put love as a game, or some of us were never serious about it before, but to begin with it isn't a game. There is no winning or losing when you truly love each others because all that doesn't matter anymore. I hope one day I can and will find a man whom will never thought about it.
Well, enough of dramas. Pens off and time to start my war with notes again!
